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A Teen’s Favorite Phrase
A Teen’s Favorite Phrase
As a teen, I had a favorite phrase: “I know.” “Make sure to turn in your permission slip for your field trip,” Dad would say. “I know Dad,” I’d reply with an annoyed tone. “Remember to check your blind spot before changing lanes,” he’d say. “I know Dad,” I’d quip with an annoyed tone. Usually Dad would say, “Just humor me anyway,” but sometimes he rebuked me for my arrogance. My attitude caused a lot of problems in our relationship.
The word in Proverbs for the person who says “I know” is “fool.” “The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to counsel.” (Prov. 12:15). One of the greatest lessons in Proverbs is for young people to learn “to receive instruction.” (Prov. 1:3). When we say “I know,” we can’t receive wisdom because we think we already have it. Teens, do yourself a favor and drop that phrase from your vocabulary. If your parents tell you something you already know, just say “thank you,” and move on. Learn to graciously receive instruction and your relationship with your parents will be richly blessed. More importantly, your relationship with God will flourish because you’ll be open to receiving His instruction.
